
Sunday, July 26, 2009
Had to Take a Break~~~~

Saturday, July 18, 2009
A Happy yet Sad Day~~~~
This evening I talked to Dad over the phone, he needed someone other that Mom or baby sis to talk about the passing of Walter Cronkite.
I missed his CBS years although I did have a chance to see his news specials and I managed to come across video copies of his reporting of the Kennedy Assassination and the Moon Landing.
I think that if I had seen him in his "Hey day" I think I would have majored in journalism instead of business finance and investing.
Goodnight Mr. Cronkite. And God Bless.Friday, July 17, 2009
I'm Back!!!

Thursday, July 2, 2009
HAPPY 4TH OF JULY EVERYONE!!!!!

And myself---well I'm happy, I don't know how long this happiness will last because I know the reality of life always intrudes, but I feel that this is a very positive turning point for everyone here.
Sunday, June 21, 2009
Have You Ever Tried to Pole Dance With A Pool Cue?
Alright sweet things I know that sounds obscene, but there is just no other way to explain it.
Let me some back ground that leads up to this remark.
Work has been insane, finishing things up for the end of the quarter and the end of the fiscal year, part of it is that some staff members have been busy with end of school year, a few graduation events and parties, last year wasn’t as bad, but this year there seems to be a lot of very special events happening at the same time, including one of my co-workers getting married.
So I hope I didn’t appear to be ignoring all of you but, as with many people right now, I’ve been busy.
So busy that I think I need another vacation.
The repair work on my bay area home is finally done, just a little painting on the outside and then buying some replacement furniture and drapes.
My neighbor, whose tree made the unexpected visit into my home, has been good on his word, his insurance has offered to make good on 90 percent of the claim, but my neighbor will pay for the remaining 10 percent. This I have to admit has surprised me, because in this day and age many people will say “Oh it’s not my fault” and try to get out of their responsibilities, part of it is that he knows some of my friends and he knows if he tries to get out of his responsibilities it could affect for the worse his friendship with them.
And, he claims he wants to be a “good neighbor”, well I’m all for that, maybe he saw the bumper sticker on my car that I bought at the last gun show---it says---“Ladies with guns have more fun” --- I really do like that sentiment.
Lillian is off visiting family for the next two weeks, so I’m collecting her mail and newspapers and watering her indoor plants----don’t have to worry about the garden, she has a sprinkler system on a timer, something I’m planning to have installed this summer.
And I’m making plans to visit my family over the 4th of July weekend, by that time Lillian will be back and she can reciprocate the favor.
Baby sis called me the other night to tell me ‘another miracle’ has happened, those 3 filing cabinets and cardboard file boxes that held all the sermons that was done by Dad’s old church, has been moved out of the family garage and sent back to the church. Dad told the ‘minister’ that the sermons really need to be on church grounds since they were church property. And baby sis can no longer transcribe the taped sermons; Dad told the ‘minister’ that baby sis needs all the spare time to work on her college degree.
Baby sis said that with those boxes and file cabinets out it feels like a big weight has been removed from the place, and everyone feels free. Of course the ‘minister’ tried to prevent Dad from doing this, but Dad, said baby sis, was firm, saying that it’s about time someone else assumed those responsibilities.
It almost sounded like baby sis was dancing around the room the way she was telling it to me, she sounded so happy. I felt so relieved that had happened it was like a hidden monster was finally chased out.
So I was feeling like celebrating, I called my friend Yoshi and she made a recommendation to go to this pool hall that was planning to have a fund raising Charity pool competition for Breast Cancer
So Saturday evening Yoshi and I along with Jill and Carol from work went to the Pool Hall, actually it’s a very large building with 50 or so tables, food, drink, music and competitions. Family friendly, but this place has a policy, no one under the age of
Fortunately Carol was the designated driver, which is fine, she can’t stand the taste of alcohol but she loves to shoot pool. I can play too but I am really amateur amateur, not great but decent.
As I said that evening was a fund raiser for Breast Cancer, and we did alright, but (and this is where I could wrap a pool cue over Yoshi’s head spring something unexpected) Yoshi signed all of us up to do “Pool Cue Pole Dancing” and sprung it on us fact accompli. The idea was the better the dancer the more dollar bills were collected for the Charity.
I really wasn’t prepared to do that, I mean I didn’t mine doing the competition for Charity but this was an unexpected extra, and now I knew why Yoshi said for us to wear high heels.
Yes Sweet Things it was legitimate and it was for a good cause, and the girls that did compete all did fairly well, but I noticed that they were making the mistake of choosing songs that ran a little long and a little slow, so that towards the end of the music they were getting tired and the audience was getting a little bored.
But the one good thing is that we could choose our music, so I asked the DJ if he had the Righteous Brothers singing “Little Latin Lupe Lup” they did. So with Pool Cue in hand, high heels, Capri pants and my white shirt tied to expose my waist (thank God I work out at the Gym) my friends will never think of that song in the same way again and there was a nice large Pot of money for Breast Cancer.
But Oh! how my toes hurt afterwards, not a good thing to dance like that in high heels, it makes me appreciate Cyd Charisse and Rita Moreno more.
So Today is now Father’s Day, I called Dad early in the morning to wish him a Happy Father’s Day, he was so happy to talk to me, I asked him how they were going to spend it and he said that Baby Sis’s boy friend (oh yes boy friend) has fixed up one of the vintage cars so it is running beautifully and they are going to take it out for a run and do a picnic, Mom and Baby sis spent yesterday cooking chicken, making home made potato salad, the corn on the cob was cooked up this morning and wrapped in foil, peach pie, and other goodies. Ted found this one Grocery store that sells soft drinks in vintage (reproduction) bottles and an old ice chest that still works.
Life right now seems very, very good, the weather has improved, and although it’s still hard times, if one thinks positive things can and will work out. Such a difference from last year, and today Sunday, I went to the flea market and had fun, found a few nice little vintage items to replace what was broken, and I wore comfortable tennis shoes, my toes still haven’t recovered.
I’ve been talking long distance on the phone to my two tenants, and things are going fine for them. And its’ possible I may go and check on them towards the end of July, I’ll just have to see how things shape up.
In the mean time, I have to plan on replacing a couch and chair, select drapes, a lamp or two and a end table, but I don’t want to rush it.
But tonight I’m going to relax and read, I’ve come across this mystery written by Ann Michelle that takes place in
And how was your weekend Sweet Things?
Wednesday, May 27, 2009
Memorial Weekends and Historical thoughts~~~
Hello Sweet Things,
Yes I have been away from my Blog; I have to admit work, work, work.
And the insanity of some of my co-workers commitments to their children’s graduations parties and events, but I can understand the “fuss” of it all. In a way I missed the “fuss” of my graduation from college, even high school. Something which Dad and Mom regret in the last phone conversation I had with them.
But I told them to plan on a “Big To-do” for Baby Sis when it’s her time. I don’t want regrets, I want to build on what we are working on right now and that is a graduation of sorts.
If all we think about are regrets then all we will have is “missed yesterdays” and I do not want that, I want to think forward and build on the opportunities to come. I feel that is better in many ways.
Well again our weather here is doing its insanity again, first we have a record breaking (for the
This last heat wave made me feel very “goofy”. I think because it was so sudden and overwhelming. But we did have fun with our “ice cream social”. And it was back to the gym for me.
I took the opportunity to go to one of my properties this last Memorial weekend and just get away from things; at least the weather inland was comfortable. I went to my Victorian house, taking up spare clothing and such to settle into my room. I had the opportunity to talk to my tenants in regards to some repairs on the front porch, nothing major, just a few steps and a banister to be replaced.
It also gave me a chance to look over the property again at greater length, they (the former owners now my tenants) have taken good care of the property and know all the local repair people, we talked about things to do in the future.
It is my intention to make sure that the house and land reflect the historical look of the area. And I think with the aid of the local historical society we may be able to do that, we had a get together to talk things over and they were very happy about my buying the property and my intention to preserve it. I have to say that my now tenants younger cousin was not happy, but that’s his problem.
Real Estate developers need not apply. (Not that the market would support it right now)
The Historical Society is in the process of buying the surrounding land around my property with the idea of working with the local community college and their agricultural classes. The idea is to show how farming and life was done at the turn of the last century, and also to acquaint students with the idea of “slow farming” using old methods that are less destructive to the land.
It’s still in the concept process, but obtaining the land now must be done and that is moving forward. There are a couple of people who do not have any heirs and are more than willing to leave their land and property to the historical society as a “Trust” which will help. I made a suggestion that it might be wise to place it in a “Trust” now and allow the people to continue to live on their property as “caretakers without pay” for as long as they wish or are able, with physical aid from volunteers and students to help maintain the properties.
Everyone including the current owners appeared to like the idea and with fundraisers to help maintain everything it would be viable. Fortunately there are a couple of lawyers on the Historical Society Board and they can look into all the legalities, but they felt it could be done.
I like the idea, although I believe that there will be times where I’m going to have to “share” my property for special events, but there is something about the concept that appeals to me.
But I am going to look into the legal side with a good lawyer from my point of view as well, I’m not going to just jump in without understand what legal problems I might be incurring.
I’m going to do it with this property, but with my own home and the other property I’m going to keep that in a separate trust for baby sis and what children she may have in the future.
But it was all fun too, the fire department had a “pancake breakfast” Sunday morning, there was a crafts street fair, music (great fiddling), a “old fashioned Snake Oil Salesman”, a couple of gunfight re-enactments, petting zoo of farm animals and a stage coach ride complete with hold-ups.
My tenants introduced me to a number of people in the community, and made some very good contacts with the leaders in the community. I now know where to get the best fruit and vegetables, freshest bread, a good doctor and dentist for emergencies, a (according to everyone) fantastic auto mechanic and where the best fishing is in the area.
I know that I’m the “newbie” in town, and as with everything it’s always wise to proceed slowly, according to what I’m hearing, they want to keep the “small town feel” but within it encourage good businesses that will help the community. They want to avoid development that would destroy the feeling of the place, so many things, buildings, locations, land and such have been placed on a historic register, made historic landmarks with plaques and signs, nothing can be done without a full public review.
A number of people told me they were worried about the property that I bought because of the former situation. But when they heard what I had done and suggested they felt more comfortable.
I could easily retire here, someday I might. But right now I have to make ‘money’.
Another gun show is coming up this weekend, and I have to make plans for the 4th of July weekend as well, I’m thinking of driving down to my parents home during that time, Lillian will be fine up here she has her two sons and their families coming to visit so she will be busy.
Joe said he would be happy to “House sit” for me, since he’s renting and his landlord is planning to do some work on his apartment building, anything to avoid the noise.
But it’s early yet, I’ll have to see how my plans develop. Thank goodness the weather right now is mild, so back to work.
More later Sweet Things.
Sunday, May 17, 2009
"Those Drums~~~those incessant jungle drums!"~~~
It is now the crazy season here in my end of the world, prom nights, seniors thinking they are going to be free, special events, getting ready for graduation---"Gaudiamous Egiture" or something like that.
No my baby sister is not graduating, she has another year---and I am going to be there for that!
No, what it is, is that a number of our staff are taking vacation time for their children's graduation events, be it 5th grade, 8th grade or high school or in one case Kindergarten. So everyone else, myself included have to take up the slack.
Long days and nights---I don't feel like traveling back and forth between my home and the city, so I've book a few days a week at my favorite hotel, so much easier on me. And the traffic has been horrendous coupled with this heat wave, and they say it's going to be a record breaker all week.
And my poor little air conditioner has died. First the sliding glass door window now the air conditioner. Well at least the glass door has been fixed and I've got several fans going full blast,
the heat is so bad that nothing is moving, nothing sane that is.
There is someone who has either a t.v. program or a cd playing and all I can hear is drums, nothing but drums---I am NOT Tondalayo.
I think it's one of my neighbors who has a back yard done in Polynesian style and not a Tiki Bar to be seen. Oops It has to be them they've switched to Martin Denny's "Quiet Village" with all the bird songs. Mai Tai anyone?
Well it is better than the drums. Lillian is coming over with Mocha Almond Fudge Ice Cream, vanilla ice cream and chocolate ice cream and root beer, cream soda and coca cola.
She said "we are going to make Cows" What is a Cow you ask?
Well for some of you who can remember it's a type of ice cream float---a brown cow is Root Beer with Vanilla ice cream, a white cow is vanilla with cream soda and a black cow is chocolate ice cream in coca cola---O.K. maybe the last doesn't sound P.C. but if it's cold and wet, I'm all for it.
And what is with the Mocha Almond Fudge Ice Cream----well Lillian says put it with cream soda and you have a Juan Valdez. But I didn't say that.
Don't worry we're not going to eat it all by ourselves, I have friends coming over, so it's going to be an "ice cream social" but some of them are bringing beer as well.
So if I'm not posting for a while---well that is why---it's the crazy graduation season.
Take care my Sweet Things, the ice cream is now at my door.

